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How to Be Counted

How to Be Counted

What Rapetrail lists

Rapetrail does not collect accusations. I am not trained to take reports, and this site accepts no submissions, no evidence, and no private disclosures. What Rapetrail lists is what is already public: assaults survivors have stated publicly, shown at the level of place — county, corridor, crossing — never as a pin on anyone’s door. If it has been said in public, it can be counted here. If it hasn’t, that is your choice, and this page is about how people make that choice safely.

How an assault gets added

There is no form, no application, and nothing to send me. An assault is counted when it enters the public record — when a survivor states it publicly. If you want yours counted, these are the safety practices that matter:

Get help first, if you need it

I’ve called RAINN several times in my life — unfortunately, because I needed to; fortunately, because they helped. RAINN runs the National Sexual Assault Hotline, 800-656-4673 (800-656-HOPE), with chat at online.rainn.org. Of the organizations out there, RAINN is the one I trust most.

And if you don’t feel comfortable calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline, you can say exactly that to RAINN and ask them for other options. You are allowed to choose who you talk to. In my experience and judgment, that hotline has a history of harm, and no survivor should have to use a service they don’t trust in order to get help.